My Experience attending Alcoholics Anonymous Meetings

“AA helps individuals achieve recovery by providing an abstinence-focused social network and new adaptive friendships that facilitate enduring change. There is also evidence that AA mobilizes changes in spiritual practices and beliefs, which may help individuals attribute new meaning to stressors inherent in the recovery process.” (Brandon, 2009)

A major strength of AA programs is its flexibility within a general organizational and program framework. It allows for many mechanisms of action and an individual can choose that which is most suited to his particular needs. The great strength of the AA meetings I attended lay in their ability to offer easy access and exposure to therapeutic factors. Through this the program is able to tap into, and generate the individual’s intrinsic recovery resources. The effect of this transformation is that the addict becomes his own best counsel in the future. First, the program makes addicts understand their own strength in confronting the issue. Second, it makes them reorient their attitudes and behaviours to be able to act in their own best interests. (Summers, 2007) For these multi-fold reasons, whose benefits reach areas over and beyond merely therapeutic, I would endorse AA program for adolescents.

While AA programs have done yeoman service to our society, those uninitiated to it may have teething problems. In the first of the three meetings that I attended, the idea of ‘sponsors’ can be awkward to negotiate. But an atmosphere of cordial amity is quickly established. Yet, for those who are not extroverted, the pressure to socialize can be stressful. I had even witnessed in the meetings how flirting and sexually suggestive signalling are freely allowed. I went to the meetings with the prior knowledge that AA permits (or, perhaps, promotes) sex as an antidote to alcohol addiction. But witnessing the dynamics of interpersonal exchanges made me question the logic behind it. After all, replacing one addiction with another is not going to get us very far. There is one girl in the group who particularly found it unacceptable. This added pressure only worsened her craving for a drink, thus worsening the problem. Disgusted, Ms. D (name shortened to protect privacy) tried to quit the group. She told me how her sponsor became furious as a consequence. Some of the pressures put on her made her distrust her own thoughts and judgments. Finally Ms. D got relief when a rehab counsellor brusquely asked her to leave the group. Another young man was bossed around so much that he simply could not continue the program, thereby ending up being an alcoholic once again. So while AA works brilliantly for most, for some it is a nightmare. Physicians and psychologists too acknowledge this facet to the AA program and sometimes show apprehension in making client referrals. Despite these drawbacks, I would still recommend adolescents struggling with alcoholism to attend the AA program. Not only is this recommendation based on my own personal observation and evaluation of the program, but is also based on a literature review of the subject. Recent studies of mechanisms of behaviour change have shown that

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